Dreams of Expat Living in Provence Became Reality For Vaucluse Dreamer

Sometimes you wake up suddenly from a dream only for it to disappear from grasp, but in other cases, that vision becomes clearer with time.

What if your dream was to live in Provence?

Over 25 years ago, Julie Whitmarsh and her husband Andy visited the Vaucluse for the first time and fell in love with the area. Ever since that initial trip to Provence, they both imagined a period in their lives when they would be able to spend more time in France. However, the demands of work schedules and two growing boys limited their time in Provence to short holiday breaks.

Julie began writing her blog the Vaucluse Dreamer in May 2014 as a bit of a distraction from her day job. The website gave her the flexibility to write about Provence highlight some of her favourite pastimes – exploring markets and brocantes. We asked her how she landed on the name Vaucluse Dreamer for her musings, “I wanted to capture the reasons for our love of the area and that the blog gave me a great excuse to think about Provence when I wasn’t there.” And, the name? “It was over a glass of wine while cooking supper in a house we were renting in Rustrel. I am constantly dreaming about spending time in the Vaucluse area of Provence so my hubby suggested the name and it seemed a simple choice.”

Their dream state rapidly turned into reality. In a short period, the Whitmarsh family became homeowners in France when they purchased a charming house on the outskirts of Apt. For this interval, Julie and her husband “commute” from the UK on alternate schedules while their youngest son finished his studies.

The Whitmarsh clan are an active group who embrace the outdoors if they are not cycling the local véloroutes (dedicated biking trails) or biking up Mont Ventoux; they are hiking or swimming.

Now Julie has the time to further develop her creative side by making stunning jewellery from pieces from antique silver that she sources in markets and brocantes. Explore her creations on Vintage Silver Workshop and watch for upcoming shows in both the UK and Provence.

As an expat-in-transition, Julie agreed to answer our questions on her impressions of the Provence lifestyle.

What is Provencal Lifestyle?

How would you describe the lifestyle in Provence to someone who has not visited?

Any time that you can spend in Provence is full of colour, scent, sound and experiences, and the period that you spend here can be whatever you want it to be. Perhaps it’s just taking the time to sit at a café watching the world bustle around you or pottering through any of the incredible daily markets. Or maybe you fancy visiting some of the pretty villages and their festivals that celebrate local products. For active types, there is cycling the back roads by the incredible lavender fields or (if you feel energetic) tackling more challenging climbs. Gentler options might include going for a walk through the garrigue or just sitting in the sun by a pool enjoying a good book. You cannot help but feel healthy when you are in Provence.

When you think of Provence what are the words that pop into your head?

Incredible light, warmth, beauty, cycling, relaxing and family.

To some degree, Provence lives on its clichés in photos – scenes of lavender, sunflower fields, and boules players. Is this your Provence?

In some ways, I suppose it is as you cannot help but be overwhelmed with the reality of the beautiful images from this part of France. However, there are many other things that I think of when I hear Provence mentioned. Mainly my impressions are lifestyle-based and not just for show. There is a wonderful community feel of a village boulangerie and café first thing in the morning, where the locals come together to socialise. I feel that there is a real sense of pride that the Provençaux have in their culture.

What does Mediterranean climate mean to you?

The Mediterranean climate first and foremost for me is about the light, and when I’m not there, I yearn for it. It’s hard to explain, but the luminosity is incredible, and I can understand why the area has always been popular with artists. Then, of course, there is the warmth which is so comforting and the lack of humidity – even when it’s bitingly cold in winter it is a dry cold, so much better than the damp, chilly air (in the UK) that gets into your bones.

What is your favourite season in Provence?

I think it would be fair to say that there isn’t a month that we don’t enjoy in Provence. To choose one season is hard so I have to be naughty here and pick two – Spring and Autumn. These seasons are both beautiful, with warm, light days and an incredible peace, when the markets are bustling but not chaotic, and the roads are empty (so much better for cycling). In spring, there are the sights of the area waking up with almond and cherry blossoms, and signs of the lavender starting to burst. Then in autumn, the colours are incredible with gold, red and russet leaves on the trees and grapevines below bright skies.

What is your favourite activity in Provence?

Without a shadow of a doubt, it is the cycling. We have always thought that when we visit somewhere by bike ‘it’s the getting there’ that we enjoy most. The beauty of where we live in the Luberon is that there are so many stunning places to visit for a wander around, to sit looking at a view or a potter around a market and being able to cycle there just adds to the enjoyment. The roads are quiet, and the flat Véloroute du Calavon acts as a cycling ‘motorway’ offering quick, off-road (away from cars) access along the length of the valley, the views are incredible, and the exercise means a guilt-free pain au chocolat for breakfast!

When you first return to Provence what aroma “says” I have arrived?

In season, it’s the lavender, which is just delightful. Throughout the rest of the year it’s the scent of the wild herbs at the side of the road, and bizarrely the plant that smells like curry.

When you leave Provence what is the thing you miss the most and wish you could take with you?

The light. It raises my spirit at all times of the year, and it’s in short supply back in the UK, especially during the winter.

Provence and the Cote d’Azur appear to evoke a decorative (home decor, restaurants, hotels) style – how might you describe this ‘Provence-style’ trend?

Provence-style conjures up the image of colour for me. There are traditional, bright fabrics (les Indiennes), the natural ochres from the cliffs of Roussillon used to decorate the houses near us and the colourful and unique glazed pottery found in the area. There is also the decorative Provence-style of faded paintwork, painted shutters and old shop-fronts all with a sense of unforced ‘shabby-chic’ that gives the region its distinctive feel. The relaxed decor offers villages and houses a well-worn elegance with light, faded colours and chipped paintwork that provides a sense that generations have been in the same place.

The Provence that many imagine today is relatively “new” thanks to the likes of Peter Mayle and others. What is “Authentic Provence” to you?

Authentic Provence is the chance to visit a quiet village, have breakfast in the boulangerie with the villagers who frequent it daily. The real Provence is being able to eat with the seasons, buy fresh produce at the local markets and sit on a wall just watching the view, while the world bustles around you.

Food in Provence

Life in Provence seems to revolve to a degree around food. How would you describe the food in the region to someone who has not visited?

The food is fresh, light, full of flavour and above all seasonal. There is great excitement when the first strawberries appear at Carpentras. Shortly afterwards the market stands turn red with cherries before shifting to the softer fruits and then apples and pears. Finally, the citrus fruit arrives at Christmastime. We don’t often go out for evening meals, preferring to prepare our food from what we find in the markets.

What are your favourite things to eat in Provence?

Truffle cheese, olives, fresh fruit and just-baked bread; baguettes (of course), but also the fig and raisin bread from the boulangerie in Goult on market days.

Is there a food or ingredient that you wish you could find outside of Provence?

Good quality garlic with large moist cloves. We tend to find only small, white garlic bulbs in the UK.

Expat Living in Provence

How would you rate your French Language skills?

I am almost bilingual and can hold my own well in conversations. My husband’s French has greatly improved in the past couple years with the help of a local language tutor (see below).

How important do you feel it is to have a decent level of French comprehension and speaking skills in Provence?

In my opinion, it is vital to speak some French, to enjoy the best the region has to offer. Although, many people speak excellent English so you will miss quite a bit without the language skills. You can get by without French as many restaurants have menus translated into other languages. This is also the case with many tourist attractions. However, to thoroughly enjoy the area it’s always better to be able to have a chat with someone, even if your French is not perfect.

What resources might you recommend to others to improve their language skills?

There are various books you can use and online programs to learn French, but we discovered a fantastic French teacher in the village just up the road. She offers Skype lessons when we are back in the UK. Marina has helped us not only with our French but our understanding of the area and life in France in general. You can find more details on the Learn French in Provence website and here.

What resources might you recommend to expats and those considering a move to Provence?

I’m not really sure. We already knew the Luberon and Vaucluse quite well so didn’t need to do any in-depth research. However, websites such as Perfectly Provence can help with local’s tips and expat living experiences. The most important encounter for us has been Marina Depoorter our French teacher, now friend, who has pointed us in the right direction whenever we’ve needed assistance. She has helped us negotiate our way through issues as they have arisen, including hosting my first jewellery exposition.

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Carolyne Kauser-Abbott

With her camera and laptop close at hand, Carolyne has traded in her business suits for the world of freelance writing and blogging. Her first airplane ride at six months of age was her introduction to the exciting world of travel.

While in Provence, Carolyne can be found hiking with friends, riding the hills around the Alpilles or tackling Mont Ventoux. Her attachment to the region resonates in Perfectly Provence this digital magazine that she launched in 2014. This website is an opportunity to explore the best of the Mediterranean lifestyle (food & wine, places to stay, expat stories, books on the region, travel tips, real estate tips and more), through our contributors' articles.

Carolyne writes a food and travel blog Ginger and Nutmeg. Carolyne’s freelance articles can be found in Global Living Magazine, Avenue Magazine and City Palate (Published Travel Articles).